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Blue Hues + 5 (mama) Sanity Keepers

February 9, 2016 By Ruthie Ridley 33 Comments

So I made it! Ben is home! Kids are alive… House is still trashed lol! I was thinking the other day about the things I HAVE to do to keep it together mentally! My schedule can be a little intense at times and if I’m not careful I can get really overwhelmed which often results in me shutting down, crying and freaking out on Ben. Lucky guy!! Lol  … Here are 5 things I do to keep my sanity on a regular basis.

1) Workout: this is huge for me. On a good day I’m at the gym for 1-1.5 hours. I lift weights, do cardio and relax in the steam room. Once a week I get killed by a trainer! But, this is my “me time” and I look forward to it everyday.

2) Create: Creating is one thing that keeps me alive. I love making ideas, plans + dreams come to life. Every day I’m creating in some way. Most times it is through my blog.

3) Work: Lately, I have been working more than I would like. Working 2 days a week would PERFECT for me. That’s what we are working toward. I love the current job I’m in. My co-workers are awesome and the work is most times non-stressful. I consider work a little break from the chaos.

4) Get around other mamas: honestly, this does not happen as often as it is necessary for me. Once a week would be totally ideal but I get with my friends about once every other week and it is SO life giving. It’s usually one on one and just what the Dr. Ordered!

5) PRAY: I can’t tell you how many times I’ve just shot up prayers like “Lord give me strength!” This is my biggest sanity keeper and it works!!! Thankfully God is reliable and nearby even when it doesn’t seem like it!

What do you do to keep your sanity?! Please do share!!

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  1. fashiontofollow says

    February 9, 2016 at 8:29 am

    Loving the blues! You are gorgeous! 🙂

  2. marymakeup says

    February 9, 2016 at 9:01 am

    Love these shoes, but the whole outfit is lovely 😀

  3. stopdropandvogue says

    February 9, 2016 at 9:59 am

    Looking lovely in blue!
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  4. Kait Elizabeth says

    February 9, 2016 at 1:21 pm

    1: You should just wear blue all the time. 2: You are super woman. 3: Every most you write makes me just want to hug you! You are so inspirational to me Ruthie. Hugs, Kait
    http://www.makeminemaroon.com

  5. Angelle Marix says

    February 9, 2016 at 2:11 pm

    Sounds like a SUPERB plan!!! Love ya!! And, you look gorgeous 😉

    XOXO,
    Angelle
    http://www.dashingdarlin.com

  6. valerie hansen says

    February 9, 2016 at 5:58 pm

    Your outfit is so chic…LOVE that jacket and those pumps are yummy!! Keeping it sane..ha ha don’t know that I am so successful at that lately.! My kids are grown, but between blogging and working almost full time I think somedays I will lose it. I try to tell myself..one thing at a time! I want it all now and learn it all at once..not gonna happen! And yes…I totally believe in prayer….it helps for sure!

    xo
    Valerie
    fashion and travel

  7. ashley says

    February 9, 2016 at 6:17 pm

    Praying helps me the most! I need to look into working out! I am sure that will help a lot, and get me back to being healthy! Love that top by the way!

  8. vidya sudarsan says

    February 9, 2016 at 6:38 pm

    Blue is beautiful color! It blends in very nicely with a lot of accessories. You look good in this color. And, I agree with you – I do the same 5 things for my sanity too. Started a group workout program in my garage with a group of mamas and that’s like the best thing happening to me right now. I pray a lot too 🙂

  9. Anna says

    February 9, 2016 at 7:27 pm

    Love, love, love how you styled it!!! I totally understand you. I’m not one of those moms that just somehow keep it together through anything and go along with a smile. I pray for patience, lots of patience. Working out is my stress relief and creating as well. Great post! ~Anna http://www.pepperandlife.com

  10. Pragma Mamma says

    February 9, 2016 at 7:29 pm

    I love your style – what a yummy mummy! Great post, thanks for sharing 🙂

  11. Jenny says

    February 9, 2016 at 8:38 pm

    Love this look dear, those jeans are perfect!!!!

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  12. ClaireC says

    February 9, 2016 at 10:10 pm

    You’re gorgeous! Love this look!

  13. Samantha says

    February 10, 2016 at 6:15 am

    This blue is awesome – you look amazing xoxo

  14. This Jenn Girl says

    February 10, 2016 at 7:06 am

    What color can’t you rock?! Love the deep royal blue on you!

    Jenn | http://www.thisjenngirl.com

  15. Jen Frick (@mrsjenfrick) says

    February 11, 2016 at 10:46 am

    Navy is such a beautiful color on you! And although I’m not a mother yet, I can agree on your 5 ways to keep sane! I find myself often doing similar things and they work wonders! Thanks so much for sharing!! xoxo

    Jen | MrsJenFrick.com

  16. jenny Ostenson Photography says

    February 11, 2016 at 12:14 pm

    Love the navy blue, and omg the shoes! Your so cute!!!

  17. PROJECT VIVRE says

    February 12, 2016 at 6:33 am

    Loved your post, Ruthie! These 5 ways can be so effective and it’s always good to hear other people’s thoughts on how they manage their sanity – it’s inspiring! Looking gorgeous in that blue! <3

    Tivoli
    http://www.projectvivre.com

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    you are awesome Miss Ruthie!! <3 and you look amazing in that blue!

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Me out here on a Monday trying to shine bright lik Me out here on a Monday trying to shine bright like a diamond 💎 because I literally lost mine this weekend 😳!!! (Swipe left to see💔) No lie, my diamond fell out of the prongs at Savannah’s 🏐 tournament, and I couldn’t find it! Get your diamonds, checked ladies!! I am really sad about it, but it could definitely be worse! I’ve had that beautiful ring for 18 years and I never got it checked! We will get it fixed eventually! @bmridley the ring 💍 is broke but it’s you and me forever baby ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

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2. Happy 72nd birthday to my dad 🎉
3. Date night with my boo 🤍
4. J is getting very tall 😭
5. Card games and chats with @mealigrace 🩷
6. @ava_ridley09 ⚽️❤️‍🔥💥
7. Family sideline fun 😌
8. Sav’s amazing 🏐 team in a tournament ✨
9. Happy birthday @nataliekresge 🥳
10. Big tournament win for J and his team 🏆
11. Extra grateful for @overcome_fitnesscp in this season 🫶🏾
12. Happy birthday @sethdavid 🥳!! Happy 20th anniversary @deborahgiles @daniel_giles ❤️‍🔥
13. 🦆 on my favorite walk around the lake🤎
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15. Brunch + prayer with these 💎 
16. @hiforrest concert for J with his best bud for his 13th!! @delani_eden you’re the best 😍
17.  @carlygulinomay & I Adventuring with our kids over Spring break🩷
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🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts & Spotify or tap the link in our bio! #TheGoodStuffPodcast #Discipline #GrowthMindset #PodcastEpisode
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I’ll go first!! Earlier this week I was just thinking about how faithful God has been to me over the years! I think we all go through different highs and lows, but it’s so good to stop and look back and remember what God has done! 

Back in 2008 when Ben and I just got married, the market had crashed. I had purchased a home on my own in CT- We lost the house and our cars were repossessed - I honestly felt like we would never recover from that!!! Not to mention, I felt so much failure and shame attached to that season!

Fast-forward to 2019, we begin working with our dear friend  @cody.d.williams  on purchasing our very first home together and he told us all the work that needed to be done with our credit,etc. we took a year and did everything we could to get things right! Not only were we able to purchase our first home together in 2019, but everything from the past was no longer a factor & two years later we were able to purchase an even more magnificent property that we now call home 🏡 

Why was this a miracle for me? I think because I thought we would always be behind & nothing would ever change. We rented for 7+ years before we were able to purchase a home as a married couple and that started to discourage me! 

Just a reminder that little miracles happen everyday and that your worst is never the worst.  God can turn your situation around in a moment!!! The BEST is yet to COME!!! Keep believing ⭐️
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