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For Such A Time As This

February 8, 2016 By Ruthie Ridley 38 Comments

Hi there friends! I hope you have all had a lovely weekend!! I had one of those weekends that was initially like, ok God, either you get me through or I am not going to make it! It ended up being an incredible weekend. (I think I was just overwhelmed at the thought of all I had to do). Friday and Saturday was spent at a women’s conference where I got to lead worship with a friend amongst 700 + beautiful women. It was such an overwhelmingly powerful time. On Saturday afternoon My kids enjoyed a very fun birthday party with friends outdoors. Our Saturday evening was chill and restful and we spent the majority of Sunday at church. Here we are at the beginning of another week and I am SO thrilled to say that our Ben comes home late tonight! I am over here crying about a ten day trip, while I have friends that have their hubby’s gone for months at a time for jobs etc. I really can’t complain!
This past weekend this thought came to mind that reminded me of a scripture in the book of Esther. “…Who knows if perhaps you were made queen for just such a time as this?”(Esther 4:14) It made me think about the timing of my life, my birth, my existence.  I could have been born in any century and time period, but I was born for this time. What an incredible time we are living in.  When I think about Esther and how her life was one of true purpose, it makes me want to live my life the very same way.  She took risk, she was brave, she was obedient and she realized the call on her life and the affect that she had on others. For this biblical time period, this was huge.  It is one of my biggest desires to make a sizable impact in this life .  I want to leave a legacy that my children will be proud of, living each day realizing, that I was born for such a time as this.  Just some random thoughts I had!
On to this dress! Some times I like to wear pieces that are loud and make a statement. This dress describes my personality a bit.  I can be loud, command attention (crazy obnoxious laugh!) and be full of color.  I saw this dress by She In Official and thought, I need that! Not to mention, it is less than 20.00! I paired it with a nude, fringe heel.  To me this is the perfect accessory.  You will notice that I am not big in to accessories/ jewelry.  I actually love accessories but I am just not the best at styling jewelry pieces etc. with outfits. I would easily wear this dress to date night!   Thank you as always for stopping by the blog!  Hope you all have a fantastic week!  Much love,
Ruthie xo
A few questions for you:
What did you do this weekend?!
What are your thoughts on being born “for such a time as this…”?
Would you rock a dress that makes this much of a statement?

 

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She In Color Blocking Dress


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  1. stopdropandvogue says

    February 8, 2016 at 7:15 am

    You wear the best color combos I swear! Loving this post 🙂 I’m all about statement pieces and generally making a statement with my style! You killed this look girlfriend.
    http://stopdropandvogue.com/style/bisous/

  2. Samantha says

    February 8, 2016 at 7:15 am

    I LOVE that dress – so cute!

  3. Alicia says

    February 8, 2016 at 8:05 am

    I love the colors and style of that dress! This is such a cute early spring look.

    Alicia | Between the Pearls

  4. The Priceless Woman says

    February 8, 2016 at 9:30 am

    Unfortunately I did not have as an eventful weekend as you. I worked on my blog and social media and then watched the Super Bowl with family. I hope the retreat was restorative for you. And on the dress! It looks great on you and yes I would (and do) rock bold statement pieces. Great post!

  5. Melissa says

    February 8, 2016 at 10:07 am

    I LOVE the dress.
    Melissa
    http://Www.melissamchee.com

  6. Lilies + Lambs says

    February 8, 2016 at 10:48 am

    Live this dress! And the heels look perfect with it!!

  7. Kristin says

    February 8, 2016 at 10:53 am

    I adore this dress!!! Nothing too exciting here this weekend…. pretty much spent it in my pjs! LOL

  8. Amanda Marie says

    February 8, 2016 at 12:50 pm

    Great dress! The colors are amazing, they accent your completion so lovely! Teal and purple are my favorite colors and they always look great together! The heels take the cake for me in this outfit! I am in love with fringe and have been wanting a pair of heels like these! So lovely! Thanks so much for sharing this great outfit!

  9. songbirdechoes says

    February 8, 2016 at 1:28 pm

    Ruthieeeee, loving these colours on you! And YAY for the hubs coming back tonight. Enjoy the family time 🙂

  10. Kait Elizabeth says

    February 8, 2016 at 5:09 pm

    Beautiful post Ruthie, and I love the Ester verse so much. My hubs was gone the first 14 months of our marriage! Being apart is never easy, and I can’t imagine doing it with kids. You’re superwoman!!! Hugs, Kait
    http://makeminemaroon.com/

  11. Angelle Marix says

    February 8, 2016 at 5:13 pm

    LOVE YOUUUU!! So happy that your man is SOON arriving!!! You look amazing in this dress!!

    XOXO,
    Angelle

  12. Janna Doan says

    February 8, 2016 at 5:20 pm

    ruthie–you are so empowering and i love that about you. and you must know a large part of you IS Ester!!!!! i’m totally shouting that out right now for you. at my computer screen. LOL. my favorite part of your post is this one line, “It is one of my biggest desires to make a sizable impact in this life.” gotta write that one down. but onto your outfit, shein sucks you in like a black hole and love those fringe heel goodness. xoxo,

    janna | http://www.jannadoan.com

  13. Shell says

    February 9, 2016 at 7:51 am

    Your posts are so beautifully written! You are such an inspiration and gorgeous inside and out!
    xo, Shell
    http://acourageousbeauty.com/

  14. Kr says

    February 9, 2016 at 7:54 am

    These photos are so super cute, I love the wind blown look! The little fringe shoes are perfect!

    So glad that your man is coming back! I feel like 10 days is long enough too, ha. I could never imagine more! Just too much!

    Always love your inspiring and gorgeous posts Ruthie!

    XO
    Krista

  15. Zainab says

    February 9, 2016 at 11:36 am

    I’m not crazy about jewelry either. At most you’ll find me wearing earrings and a watch. But heels look AMAZING on you as does the dress. I might need to get me one too.

  16. a says

    February 9, 2016 at 11:49 am

    Such an adorable dress! I love the color combo, and these photos are adorable!

  17. Anna says

    February 9, 2016 at 7:59 pm

    The color blocking is errrrythang!!!! Looking gorg!! ~Anna http://www.pepperandlife.com

  18. This Jenn Girl says

    February 10, 2016 at 6:42 am

    Lilac is such a fabulous color on you, Ruthie! Loving this look.

    Jenn | http://www.thisjenngirl.com

  19. Lauren of An Explorer's Heart says

    February 10, 2016 at 5:56 pm

    Love that dress and I especially love it with those fringe heels —- perfect!

  20. danikqwa says

    February 10, 2016 at 7:39 pm

    You wear this dress so well. I went to the site and saw how it fit the model – I definitely think you wear it best! You have such a great eye for fashion.

  21. Jen Frick (@mrsjenfrick) says

    February 11, 2016 at 10:41 am

    When I saw this outfit on you, my first thought was YES, this is so Ruthie! So stunning, so colorful, and so wonderful! xoxo

    Jen | MrsJenFrick.com

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