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Show Yourself Some Love This Valentine’s Day Featuring Karen O’Brien

February 11, 2018 By Ruthie Ridley 82 Comments

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

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This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

Happy almost Valentine’s Day, gal pals! My name is Karen O’Brien the girl behind For All Things Pretty, a California life and style blog, and I’m so excited for today’s post! Ruthie was kind enough to let me jump in here to share a couple of my favorite ways to practice self-care for the month of February. Fortunately, February is the month of love where we take a full day of the year to show kindness, love, and gratefulness to those special beings in our life; however, I like to take it one step further and include myself in the mix as well. As women, we go through a lot every single day! I feel like we have so much to juggle day in and day out, which can get a little stressful and hectic. I’m a huge believer in the fact that taking a few moments to take care of ourselves allows us to recharge both mentally and physically, something that is tremendously important and might sometimes be overlooked. 

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. One of my favorite ways to practice self-care is to draw a bath after a long day, complete with some bath salts, a good book, a nice candle, and a glass of wine (water for me since I’m currently 9 months pregnant!). Go the extra mile and add some fresh flowers and slices of citrus fruit to your bath, I promise you won’t regret it! Plus it serves dual purpose as it can enhance your skin (& mood!) and also makes for an exceptionally great Instagram photo! It’s a win win! Other favorite ways I like to practice self-care include expressing gratitude daily as it helps me feel blessed for everything I have (& doesn’t allow any negativity in) and taking care of my body, both inwardly and outwardly. I love making healthy eating choices and exercising regularly but also love pampering myself, whether it be with a mani-pedi, a hair mask, my favorite face mask, or even diffusing my best-loved essential oil in my oil diffuser. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so! Tell me in the comments below, what are your favorite ways to practice self-care? I’d love to know! 

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by doing something that makes YOU happy. There are so many ways to practice self-care and February is the perfect month to do so!

Thank you so so much Ruthie for letting me take over today to share about self-care and to you for taking a moment of your day to stop by. Wishing you a happy Valentine’s Day this week! xo Karen 

All Photos By: Karen O’brien

SO happy to have Karen guest posting for me today!! She is the face behind all the pretty things you see on my blog, like my collages etc.! Her creativity is so inspiring and contagious!! She is a multifaceted talent and I am SO thankful that our paths crossed! I even got to meet Karen in person a few months back and she is pure gold!! Check out her amazing Instagram and blog!! Thank you Karen for sharing this WONDERFUL post with us today!! Love Ya!!


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  1. Nicole says

    February 12, 2018 at 5:42 am

    This is bath time goals. It’s so important to remember that as much as we need to show love to others we need to show just as much to ourselves. Thanks for sharing this!

  2. Jessica says

    February 12, 2018 at 6:43 am

    We need to renovate our bathroom so we can use the bath like this! hope to do it sometime soon!
    xo Jessica
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  3. Annette Dattilo says

    February 12, 2018 at 6:58 am

    It’s so true that when we take time for ourself it declutters our mind to remember the things we can be grateful for. Love the fruit sluces in a bath idea. Thanks for sharing.

  4. Courtney says

    February 12, 2018 at 11:39 am

    I am obsessed with baths! I love them so much that some days I take more than one, don’t tell! These pictures are a dream and something I hope to indulge in soon! Thank you for sharing because it is now on my bucket list to have a bath as beautiful as yours! seriously, goals!

  5. allison - Celebrating sweets says

    February 12, 2018 at 12:32 pm

    A bath and a glass of wine sounds freaking amazing!

  6. Tami @ The Inspiration Lady says

    February 12, 2018 at 12:40 pm

    I’m all about showing yourself love on Valentine’s Day and this bath looks perfect! <3

  7. Primetime Chaos says

    February 12, 2018 at 1:21 pm

    What a lovely idea! I love taking baths but have never made the effort to actually put anything else than a soak in it. I will try that next time 🙂
    xx. Theresa

  8. Kyla Matton Osborne | 24 Carrot Diet says

    February 12, 2018 at 1:24 pm

    A hot bath is one of my favourite ways to pamper myself. And I love citrus, so I had a lot of fun looking at the photos in this post. I think, though, that I’d use citrus essential oils in the bath water and I’d save the lovely fruit to eat – or maybe garnish a fancy drink 🙂

  9. Taylor says

    February 12, 2018 at 1:57 pm

    I couldn’t agree more! We totally need/deserve a little “me time” and to treat OURSELVES. I have like a drawer full of bath bombs that I need to use after see how cute your tub looks!
    xo!
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  10. Stephanie Whitman says

    February 12, 2018 at 2:04 pm

    Baths are always a good idea in my book. Bath bombs, salts, or oils always make things more enjoyable and add a luxurious feel to it. Drinking some wine (or sparkling water) with chocolates, a good book, and some relaxing music makes me a happy gal! Love this idea!

  11. Marcie says

    February 12, 2018 at 2:19 pm

    I’m hooked on taking baths, but this one is amazing! I just started using bath bombs and they are a lot of fun!

  12. Kristina says

    February 12, 2018 at 6:18 pm

    I love me some baths but i need to step up my game… this at home spa night looks amazing!

    xo, Kristina

  13. Laura || Walking in Memphis in High Heels says

    February 12, 2018 at 6:25 pm

    Oh my gosh these photos, I just want to sink into that bathtub. I love the idea of bath bombs, I need to grab a few new ones and test them out, get some relaxation in!

  14. Kelsie says

    February 12, 2018 at 6:27 pm

    I’ve heard of these milk baths and they’re absolutely beautiful!!

  15. Holly says

    February 12, 2018 at 7:07 pm

    Omg this milk bath is goals…I would make it just for the sake that it looks beautiful! Not to mention, it’s relaxing too! xx

  16. Tara pittman says

    February 12, 2018 at 7:09 pm

    A bath sounds so wonderful but I no longer have one in the master bath as we added a large shower. The kids bath is too small to relax in.

  17. Kasey | Running in Heels says

    February 12, 2018 at 7:10 pm

    That bath looks like a dream! I totally agree we need to do little things to care for ourselves!

  18. Nelli says

    February 12, 2018 at 8:09 pm

    I love love baths, it’s my favorite way to relax after a busy day! wow this bath is goals, so perfect and peaceful! Xo, Nelli

  19. Jenny says

    February 12, 2018 at 8:55 pm

    Wow, this looks so luxurious! I need to do one of these soon.

  20. Autumn says

    February 13, 2018 at 2:47 am

    Yes, we definitely need to take time out to love and pamper ourselves. That bath looks amazing. Congratulations on the baby! Happy Valentine’s Day!

  21. Erica @ Coming Up Roses says

    February 13, 2018 at 4:42 am

    BATH GOALS. I’ve had such an exhausting week, if I could just jump in this tub right about now…

  22. La Shell says

    February 13, 2018 at 5:32 am

    never had a bath like this and it looks sooooo amazing! Only God knows how much I need one of these.

  23. nancy c says

    February 13, 2018 at 6:14 am

    i love these tips to remind us to love ourselves! i am definitely going to enjoy a quiet glass of wine tomorrow =)

  24. Nancy Smith says

    February 13, 2018 at 6:56 am

    Thanks for the reminder about self-love and pampering oneself. It makes sense to do this first so we can really love others. Pretty images. Nice blog.

  25. Kylie says

    February 13, 2018 at 7:46 am

    This could not be cuter!!! MAkes me want to jump into that bath right now! How glam!

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  26. Belle says

    February 13, 2018 at 8:16 am

    Oh my gosh! That bath looks fantastic! I would love to try that!

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  27. Amanda Kruse says

    February 13, 2018 at 8:28 am

    I have never heard of a milk bath before. This looks so relaxing right now!

    xx,
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  28. Ashley says

    February 13, 2018 at 8:56 am

    that looks like the most relaxing bath ever! Definitely heading over to check her out.

  29. Oh to Be a Muse says

    February 13, 2018 at 9:19 am

    I’ve been more of a shower girl and not a bath girl, but these beautiful bath photos are making me think otherwise.

  30. Elizabeth Seal says

    February 13, 2018 at 9:23 am

    Aw this looks incredible! Such gorgeous photos and atmosphere, I dream of spending Valentines this way 😀 xx

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  31. Samantha says

    February 13, 2018 at 9:27 am

    Wow! this bath puts mine to shame!!! baths are one of my favorite ways of winding down after a long day!

  32. Jenni LeBaron says

    February 13, 2018 at 11:12 am

    I’m so jealous of this bath right now! How gorgeous and relaxing! I especially like that you haven’t forgot the wine!

  33. Holly says

    February 13, 2018 at 11:47 am

    Sounds like perfect valentinesday plans to me. These pictures are so lovely

  34. Becky Willis says

    February 13, 2018 at 12:48 pm

    What a wonderful post. when the time comes and we have been able to redo our bathroom this is top on my list. Right now our bathroom is the least place I would feel special or fancy lol. Love your idea!

  35. Wendy Polisi says

    February 13, 2018 at 2:44 pm

    Oh I plan on spoiling myself. It is going to be a Valentine’s Day to remember.

  36. Krystel | Disney on a Budget says

    February 13, 2018 at 4:20 pm

    That bath looks perfect. And that drink! I have been trying to think of a way to spoil myself tomorrow.

  37. Tanvi Rastogi says

    February 13, 2018 at 5:59 pm

    Just scrolling through your post is relaxing … such lovely pictures and setting. I show myself some love everyday 😉 Haha

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  38. Morgan Klein says

    February 13, 2018 at 6:05 pm

    This post was so good!!! I loved reading it and that bath seriously looks like a dream!

  39. Cynthia Nicoletti says

    February 13, 2018 at 7:31 pm

    You made your bath look fabulous. I am honestly not a bath lover but i feel like jumping in yours. 🙂

  40. Leigh Anne Borders says

    February 13, 2018 at 8:14 pm

    I love this! I enjoy spending time in the bath to relax and unwind. I have never thought to add flowers like this. Now that it would definitely be something to do!

  41. katrina m gehman says

    February 13, 2018 at 9:15 pm

    oH MAN, THAT BATH LOOKS AMAZING. I WISH I COULD TAKE ONE RIGHT NOW. SAVING THIS FOR LATTER LOL

  42. Berlin | momiberlin says

    February 13, 2018 at 10:34 pm

    I love your proposal. Do something I truly love. That must be a real hot and comfortable Bubble Bath and a Time for Myself.. I hope I be able To have it.

  43. Tayler says

    February 14, 2018 at 8:06 am

    You have a gorgeous bath! I’ve never done a milk bath before.

  44. Laura Leigh says

    February 14, 2018 at 9:04 am

    I AM so wishing We had a bathtub after reading this and looking at these beautiful photos. When we buy a house that is going to be a must so i can do exactly this!

    xo Laura Leigh
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  45. Gita says

    February 14, 2018 at 10:51 am

    yaaaaasss girl! Oh what I would give to be getting into this bath right now (instead of being at work) lol

  46. Marie Gizelle says

    February 14, 2018 at 2:14 pm

    Wow! The bath looks so yummy to be used…haha…I love the colors in it, and I’m sure it would be enjoyable to spend me time there…now I want a tub too!

  47. Ashley says

    February 15, 2018 at 5:48 pm

    This looks like an amazing way to pamper yourself! I’ m wishing I was getting into this tub for a little R&R right now!

  48. Ozum | Mama Mingo says

    February 15, 2018 at 11:00 pm

    You seriously created my dream bath!!! The color combination is phenomenal. Those photos made me feel like i don’t treat myself well enough =]

  49. Aduke Schulist says

    February 17, 2018 at 1:02 pm

    Well, it’s not Valentine’s day anymore, but I know what I’m doing tonight!

  50. ANGIE says

    February 18, 2018 at 6:28 pm

    HAD A COUPLE OF GOOD FRIENDS WHO WENT AWAY FOR THE WEEKEND TO SPEND SOME TIME ALONE JUST FOR A WHILE. wE ALL NEED THAT FROM TIME TO TIME AND LOOKING FOR ANOTHER WEEKEND TO BE ALONE WITH MY MAN SOON

  51. Brittany Boone says

    February 18, 2018 at 6:40 pm

    This looks so relaxing! I love taking baths and have neber thought to add floweRs too!

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  52. Lindsay says

    February 18, 2018 at 7:25 pm

    This is such a beautiful post! Love!!!

  53. Tif says

    February 18, 2018 at 8:14 pm

    I love taking a long bubble bath. I need to add some flowers and fruit though!

    Tif
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  54. Mardene Carr says

    February 19, 2018 at 6:04 am

    Thanks for the reminder because sometimes we forget ourselves in all of the excitement. we tend to focus on our families and spouses more than ourselves at times.

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    March 2, 2018 at 11:06 am

    OKAY i love all of this!
    I am a huge self love advocate and your set up is amazing here so i am basically obsessed with this post!

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Happy for Ava girl!!! She deserves it 🥹. Also h Happy for Ava girl!!! She deserves it 🥹. Also happy for me 😝. I need help with this cab service I’ve been running the last few years!!!! We got her a 2008 Honda Civic!! Should last her a few years! What was your very first car?! Mine was a 1989 Toyota Corolla 🚗😍 @ava_ridley09
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Ready for any summer vacation in these stunning bl Ready for any summer vacation in these stunning blues💙!! Which dress is your favorite?! Comment DRESS for a link to these pieces!! @lovechicos #SummerDresses #ChicosPartner
Forever grateful to call these beautiful humans mi Forever grateful to call these beautiful humans mine😌Thank you, Jesus for the gift 💫Also, Happy Mother’s Day to my incredible mom 🥹🤩🫶🏾… there is not another more loving and selfless than you✨. Happy Mother’s Day to all the incredible moms out there🌸
Me out here on a Monday trying to shine bright lik Me out here on a Monday trying to shine bright like a diamond 💎 because I literally lost mine this weekend 😳!!! (Swipe left to see💔) No lie, my diamond fell out of the prongs at Savannah’s 🏐 tournament, and I couldn’t find it! Get your diamonds, checked ladies!! I am really sad about it, but it could definitely be worse! I’ve had that beautiful ring for 18 years and I never got it checked! We will get it fixed eventually! @bmridley the ring 💍 is broke but it’s you and me forever baby ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

In other news, this super cute dress is $15🤯!! Comment DRESS to get deets to this entire look ❤️‍🔥💥🫶🏾✨😌😍😘
✨APRIL✨ was a “Beautiful Mess”😌 Showing ✨APRIL✨ was a “Beautiful Mess”😌 Showing you all the of the beautiful… I don’t have any pictures of the mess 😝!!! “But in all things we give THANKS!” 1 Thess. 5:18 ❤️‍🔥 (Comment “SHOP” for links to any of my looks)
1. Just because 🧡💁🏾‍♀️
2. Happy 72nd birthday to my dad 🎉
3. Date night with my boo 🤍
4. J is getting very tall 😭
5. Card games and chats with @mealigrace 🩷
6. @ava_ridley09 ⚽️❤️‍🔥💥
7. Family sideline fun 😌
8. Sav’s amazing 🏐 team in a tournament ✨
9. Happy birthday @nataliekresge 🥳
10. Big tournament win for J and his team 🏆
11. Extra grateful for @overcome_fitnesscp in this season 🫶🏾
12. Happy birthday @sethdavid 🥳!! Happy 20th anniversary @deborahgiles @daniel_giles ❤️‍🔥
13. 🦆 on my favorite walk around the lake🤎
14. @ava_ridley09 award ceremony for life fitness. Currently squatting 205 🏋️‍♀️💪🏾
15. Brunch + prayer with these 💎 
16. @hiforrest concert for J with his best bud for his 13th!! @delani_eden you’re the best 😍
17.  @carlygulinomay & I Adventuring with our kids over Spring break🩷
In today’s episode🎙️we are talking about th In today’s episode🎙️we are talking about the power of discipline & the key to unlocking both long-term and short-term goals🚀
We truly believe that everything you want in life is on the other side of the hard and uncomfortable!!! 😌
🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts & Spotify or tap the link in our bio! #TheGoodStuffPodcast #Discipline #GrowthMindset #PodcastEpisode
WHAT IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST MIRACLES YOU HAVE EVER WHAT IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST MIRACLES YOU HAVE EVER WITNESSED GOD DO IN YOUR LIFE?!✨🫶🏾🕊️❤️‍🔥🙌🏾🙏🏾🤍

I’ll go first!! Earlier this week I was just thinking about how faithful God has been to me over the years! I think we all go through different highs and lows, but it’s so good to stop and look back and remember what God has done! 

Back in 2008 when Ben and I just got married, the market had crashed. I had purchased a home on my own in CT- We lost the house and our cars were repossessed - I honestly felt like we would never recover from that!!! Not to mention, I felt so much failure and shame attached to that season!

Fast-forward to 2019, we begin working with our dear friend  @cody.d.williams  on purchasing our very first home together and he told us all the work that needed to be done with our credit,etc. we took a year and did everything we could to get things right! Not only were we able to purchase our first home together in 2019, but everything from the past was no longer a factor & two years later we were able to purchase an even more magnificent property that we now call home 🏡 

Why was this a miracle for me? I think because I thought we would always be behind & nothing would ever change. We rented for 7+ years before we were able to purchase a home as a married couple and that started to discourage me! 

Just a reminder that little miracles happen everyday and that your worst is never the worst.  God can turn your situation around in a moment!!! The BEST is yet to COME!!! Keep believing ⭐️
Join us for a fun and inspiring conversation with Join us for a fun and inspiring conversation with our good friend @beckyfoxjohnson as we talk about navigating life as a strong female leader!!!💛
Becky is a phenomenal example of pioneering in spaces without a clear roadmap, breaking barriers, and leading with confidence!
🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts & Spotify or tap the link in our bio! #TheGoodStuffPodcast #WomenInLeadership #Trailblazer #PodcastEpisode
Thankful for the Cross ✝️!!! Happy Easter from Thankful for the Cross ✝️!!! Happy Easter from our fam to yours 🤍✨🕊️😘 + a little throwback to Easter 2012 just because 🥰
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