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Blue Hues + 5 (mama) Sanity Keepers

February 9, 2016 By Ruthie Ridley 31 Comments

So I made it! Ben is home! Kids are alive… House is still trashed lol! I was thinking the other day about the things I HAVE to do to keep it together mentally! My schedule can be a little intense at times and if I’m not careful I can get really overwhelmed which often results in me shutting down, crying and freaking out on Ben. Lucky guy!! Lol  … Here are 5 things I do to keep my sanity on a regular basis.

1) Workout: this is huge for me. On a good day I’m at the gym for 1-1.5 hours. I lift weights, do cardio and relax in the steam room. Once a week I get killed by a trainer! But, this is my “me time” and I look forward to it everyday.

2) Create: Creating is one thing that keeps me alive. I love making ideas, plans + dreams come to life. Every day I’m creating in some way. Most times it is through my blog.

3) Work: Lately, I have been working more than I would like. Working 2 days a week would PERFECT for me. That’s what we are working toward. I love the current job I’m in. My co-workers are awesome and the work is most times non-stressful. I consider work a little break from the chaos.

4) Get around other mamas: honestly, this does not happen as often as it is necessary for me. Once a week would be totally ideal but I get with my friends about once every other week and it is SO life giving. It’s usually one on one and just what the Dr. Ordered!

5) PRAY: I can’t tell you how many times I’ve just shot up prayers like “Lord give me strength!” This is my biggest sanity keeper and it works!!! Thankfully God is reliable and nearby even when it doesn’t seem like it!

What do you do to keep your sanity?! Please do share!!

Below is Evy’s trees newest hoodie release!! I’ve had the privelage of wearing quite a few of their hoodies of the past year. This one is by far the softest in material…I’m living in it! Plus I just love the color!! This one is called the “Sophie” in navy. It is available for pre-order today! Don’t miss it!! ❤️
  blue hues
blue hoodie  evystree blue
ruthie blue hues

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Sophie In Navy

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  1. fashiontofollow says

    February 9, 2016 at 8:29 am

    Loving the blues! You are gorgeous! 🙂

    Reply
  2. marymakeup says

    February 9, 2016 at 9:01 am

    Love these shoes, but the whole outfit is lovely 😀

    Reply
  3. stopdropandvogue says

    February 9, 2016 at 9:59 am

    Looking lovely in blue!
    http://stopdropandvogue.com

    Reply
  4. Kait Elizabeth says

    February 9, 2016 at 1:21 pm

    1: You should just wear blue all the time. 2: You are super woman. 3: Every most you write makes me just want to hug you! You are so inspirational to me Ruthie. Hugs, Kait
    http://www.makeminemaroon.com

    Reply
  5. Angelle Marix says

    February 9, 2016 at 2:11 pm

    Sounds like a SUPERB plan!!! Love ya!! And, you look gorgeous 😉

    XOXO,
    Angelle
    http://www.dashingdarlin.com

    Reply
  6. valerie hansen says

    February 9, 2016 at 5:58 pm

    Your outfit is so chic…LOVE that jacket and those pumps are yummy!! Keeping it sane..ha ha don’t know that I am so successful at that lately.! My kids are grown, but between blogging and working almost full time I think somedays I will lose it. I try to tell myself..one thing at a time! I want it all now and learn it all at once..not gonna happen! And yes…I totally believe in prayer….it helps for sure!

    xo
    Valerie
    fashion and travel

    Reply
  7. ashley says

    February 9, 2016 at 6:17 pm

    Praying helps me the most! I need to look into working out! I am sure that will help a lot, and get me back to being healthy! Love that top by the way!

    Reply
  8. vidya sudarsan says

    February 9, 2016 at 6:38 pm

    Blue is beautiful color! It blends in very nicely with a lot of accessories. You look good in this color. And, I agree with you – I do the same 5 things for my sanity too. Started a group workout program in my garage with a group of mamas and that’s like the best thing happening to me right now. I pray a lot too 🙂

    Reply
  9. Anna says

    February 9, 2016 at 7:27 pm

    Love, love, love how you styled it!!! I totally understand you. I’m not one of those moms that just somehow keep it together through anything and go along with a smile. I pray for patience, lots of patience. Working out is my stress relief and creating as well. Great post! ~Anna http://www.pepperandlife.com

    Reply
  10. Pragma Mamma says

    February 9, 2016 at 7:29 pm

    I love your style – what a yummy mummy! Great post, thanks for sharing 🙂

    Reply
  11. Jenny says

    February 9, 2016 at 8:38 pm

    Love this look dear, those jeans are perfect!!!!

    http://www.plogstyle.com

    Reply
  12. ClaireC says

    February 9, 2016 at 10:10 pm

    You’re gorgeous! Love this look!

    Reply
  13. Samantha says

    February 10, 2016 at 6:15 am

    This blue is awesome – you look amazing xoxo

    Reply
  14. This Jenn Girl says

    February 10, 2016 at 7:06 am

    What color can’t you rock?! Love the deep royal blue on you!

    Jenn | http://www.thisjenngirl.com

    Reply
  15. Jen Frick (@mrsjenfrick) says

    February 11, 2016 at 10:46 am

    Navy is such a beautiful color on you! And although I’m not a mother yet, I can agree on your 5 ways to keep sane! I find myself often doing similar things and they work wonders! Thanks so much for sharing!! xoxo

    Jen | MrsJenFrick.com

    Reply
  16. jenny Ostenson Photography says

    February 11, 2016 at 12:14 pm

    Love the navy blue, and omg the shoes! Your so cute!!!

    Reply
  17. PROJECT VIVRE says

    February 12, 2016 at 6:33 am

    Loved your post, Ruthie! These 5 ways can be so effective and it’s always good to hear other people’s thoughts on how they manage their sanity – it’s inspiring! Looking gorgeous in that blue! <3

    Tivoli
    http://www.projectvivre.com

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    February 17, 2016 at 8:47 am

    you are awesome Miss Ruthie!! <3 and you look amazing in that blue!

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⚪️ I was born in Jamaica raised in CT, moved to CA on a dream and also to be apart of the @jcsacramento church plant in 2013
⚪️ Ben and I met at church in CT. Our families were hanging out before we ever met each other. Started dating in June of 2007. Engaged in December. Married in July 2008. 
⚪️ Ben was born in England. 
⚪️ Ava is 11 almost 12, Savannah is 10 and Judah is 9 on Sunday. They’re 15 and 17 months apart. 
⚪️ I got pregnant with Ava two months after getting married. 
⚪️ Originally we wanted 5 kids. I had two back to back c-sections so I decided to tie my tubes at 28 🤪🤪. 
⚪️ I will be 37 on June 21. Ben will be 35 on July 16. He has 4 siblings and I have 1. 
⚪️My main sports growing up were soccer ⚽️ and track 🏃🏾‍♀️ 
⚪️ Even though I’m on the keto diet my favorite foods are pasta, gummy candy and fries LOL
⚪️ I left my 17 year nursing career last fall to pursue influencing and content creation full-time after doing both for 6 years. 
⚪️ Ben had originally gone to school for his teaching degree in exercise science back in Connecticut. When we got to California he found out he had to do all this recertification. It had been deep in his heart to get into law-enforcement and decided to pursue that instead. He has been on patrol 🚔 since 2018. 
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I’ve said this on stories a few times but, @thymesfragrances carries my FAVORITE candles of all time.
In particular, Frasier Fir will fill your home with the most magical scent and put you at ease!
Fully obsessed with everything they carry! #thymesfrangrancepartner 📸 @hannahjoyphoto
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I have partnered up with some amazing ladies to style graphic tees all week long!! Follow along in stories for all the inspiration 🥰🥰 
@caitlinoliviastyled 
@bonniewyrick 
@streetsbeatseats
@shaynaslife 

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The girls are  17 months apart. They aren’t the best of friends YET but I know it’s coming. They have their sweet moments and I eat it up. #preteens check out the last pic. Like seriously melt😭! http://liketk.it/38t6N #liketkit @liketoknow.it
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In other news I am wearing head to toe @Athleta!! I have raved about this brand for years! So versatile, comfortable and timeless! The best news however is, now they have launched their expanded range of styles in 1X to 3X sizes. Their sizes now go from XXS to 3X. This is so important and makes me happy!! We should all be able to walk into any store and find our size in the clothes we love! #ad #athleta #PowerOfShe @athleta @shopstylecollective 📸 @itserikachristine
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There are a few new faces around so I felt like it would be a great time to do Friday introductions💖🥰💖
⚪️ I was born in Jamaica raised in CT, moved to CA on a dream and also to be apart of the @jcsacramento church plant in 2013
⚪️ Ben and I met at church in CT. Our families were hanging out before we ever met each other. Started dating in June of 2007. Engaged in December. Married in July 2008. 
⚪️ Ben was born in England. 
⚪️ Ava is 11 almost 12, Savannah is 10 and Judah is 9 on Sunday. They’re 15 and 17 months apart. 
⚪️ I got pregnant with Ava two months after getting married. 
⚪️ Originally we wanted 5 kids. I had two back to back c-sections so I decided to tie my tubes at 28 🤪🤪. 
⚪️ I will be 37 on June 21. Ben will be 35 on July 16. He has 4 siblings and I have 1. 
⚪️My main sports growing up were soccer ⚽️ and track 🏃🏾‍♀️ 
⚪️ Even though I’m on the keto diet my favorite foods are pasta, gummy candy and fries LOL
⚪️ I left my 17 year nursing career last fall to pursue influencing and content creation full-time after doing both for 6 years. 
⚪️ Ben had originally gone to school for his teaching degree in exercise science back in Connecticut. When we got to California he found out he had to do all this recertification. It had been deep in his heart to get into law-enforcement and decided to pursue that instead. He has been on patrol 🚔 since 2018. 
⚪️ We just started Outlander 😲. Such incredible acting. But we love true crime shows and documentaries. 

🌟 Tell me something about you in the comments! Do we have anything in common?!
All the big smiles for more snacks that fit into m All the big smiles for more snacks that fit into my lifestyle! As you all know, I’ve been doing the keto diet and have been focusing on my sugar and carb intake since December of last year. I notice how sugar and carbs really affect my metabolism! Stoked to have found this amazing yogurt that is a new flavor by @twogoodyogurt! Only 3g of sugar per 5.3 oz serving and all the yummy flavors!!! @target #targetpartner #LessWasteMoreGoodness #TwoGood #TwoGoodYogurt #GoodForOurWorld #GoodSave
“Ruthie, is that you?!!! Another graphic tee?!!! “Ruthie, is that you?!!! Another graphic tee?!!!” My girl Kim @liveloveblank is always inspiring me with the edgy chic looks!! This tee is by @shopsubtledust She makes retro, vintage tees based on Disney rides!!! I cannot wait for Disneyland open up again… #SpaceMountain Kut jeans, vintage sunnies and Chelsea boots. http://liketk.it/38VEt #liketkit @liketoknow.it 📸 @itserikachristine
Do you have a favorite day of the week? I don’t Do you have a favorite day of the week? I don’t know if I have a favorite day, but I do love Sunday’s. I feel like Sunday’s give me permission to slow down, take a deep breath and focus on some self care even if it’s brief! 🥰 #GiftedByArticle #ourarticle  #RidleyRetreat 📸 @hannahjoyphoto
We are working on our model poses 👀🤣💃🏾 We are working on our model poses
👀🤣💃🏾🕺🏼Swipe for the big cheese! 

I wear glasses for blue light protection and Benjamin just got a new prescription late last year. He was on patrol when he realized while driving at night it was becoming more and more difficult to read street signs. We started looking to Eyeglass World last year and it has been the best decision we have made! One of our favorite things about @eyeglassworld is that the day you get your eye exam is the day you get your glasses! Best part is you can always find a two pair for $78 deal every single day! Both Ben and I feel pretty cool in these specs! What do you guys think about our new frames?! #EGWpartner 📸 @etchedintime_photography
Lighting a good candle instantly puts me in a good Lighting a good candle instantly puts me in a good mood😌✨⭐️
I’ve said this on stories a few times but, @thymesfragrances carries my FAVORITE candles of all time.
In particular, Frasier Fir will fill your home with the most magical scent and put you at ease!
Fully obsessed with everything they carry! #thymesfrangrancepartner 📸 @hannahjoyphoto
Branching out in my style game with some graphic t Branching out in my style game with some graphic tees!! 💃🏾💯💁🏾‍♀️ 

Swipe left and let me know which one is your fave! 1️⃣,2️⃣ or 3️⃣!! 

I have partnered up with some amazing ladies to style graphic tees all week long!! Follow along in stories for all the inspiration 🥰🥰 
@caitlinoliviastyled 
@bonniewyrick 
@streetsbeatseats
@shaynaslife 

Shop these looks here ▶️ http://liketk.it/38yxG 📸 @itserikachristine #liketoknowit
Now and Then 🥺😭💖👭🏽 Anyone find tha Now and Then 🥺😭💖👭🏽

Anyone find that machine that pauses time yet 😦?!!! I’ll pay anything!! Send me the link!!!!!! 

The girls are  17 months apart. They aren’t the best of friends YET but I know it’s coming. They have their sweet moments and I eat it up. #preteens check out the last pic. Like seriously melt😭! http://liketk.it/38t6N #liketkit @liketoknow.it
14 Valentine’s Day celebrations down- forever to 14 Valentine’s Day celebrations down- forever to go! I love you Benjamin Mark Ridley! Excited to go on a date on the actual holiday for the first time in forever tonight 😅💃🏾🕺🏼http://liketk.it/38lj4 #liketkit @liketoknow.it 📸 @etchedintime_photography
I discovered the importance of stretching the hard I discovered the importance of stretching the hard way last year! On my last few days of my job in nursing I literally had so much pain in my left hip while walking! I went to my chiropractor, they did x-rays and found out I had hip bursitis🤦🏾‍♀️ WUTTTT?! I’m not 90! Yes!! All the years of running, half marathon training, soccer etc. never stretching, it caught up! Now I go to the chiropractor every week and I do stretch LOL! Stretch people🤣
 
In other news I am wearing head to toe @Athleta!! I have raved about this brand for years! So versatile, comfortable and timeless! The best news however is, now they have launched their expanded range of styles in 1X to 3X sizes. Their sizes now go from XXS to 3X. This is so important and makes me happy!! We should all be able to walk into any store and find our size in the clothes we love! #ad #athleta #PowerOfShe @athleta @shopstylecollective 📸 @itserikachristine
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