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Black X Black

February 15, 2016 By Ruthie Ridley 42 Comments

 

I have to be honest, we are so ridiculously spoiled with this weather here in California. We have now been here for 3 years, and I am still floored when I walk outside in Februrary and it is 70 degrees!!! I feel like I am in heaven… I know, dramatic! lol Some of you may know that I grew up in CT and the Winters were BRUTAL. My best friend back east texted me this weekend and said it was -30 in CT. She has a little one in the house and I’m like, NO! You need to come out here lol.
Anyways, all that to say, we are in sleevless tops (how cute is this flowy top from Kay Celine) from time to time, my kids are in shorts and went swimming this weekend (a little over board I think). I know it is a little premature but we are all seeing signs of Spring and we cannot wait.
The look below is one that I would typically wear on the stage when I sing. Black to me is always safe. Being under lights, being high up, people staring at you, you want to wear something that is comfortable, yet cute and as I said before, safe. Black is slimming, it is timelss, it is classic. I LOVE black. I actually portray quite a bit of color on the blog, but in my closet there is lots of black and grey! I also love wearing hats on the stage. I am not big into accessories. I think right now it isn’t because I don’t love them, because I do, it is more because I gravitate toward the same pieces and I feel like it gets boring. Also, anything nice I have had in the past, my kids have gotten into and it drives me crazy! At the moment I would love a nice watch and a sweet pair of earrings! I am working on it. So, to me, a hat is the perfect accessory for the stage. It obviously makes you stand out, dresses you up a little and it completely changes a look of an outfit. There are all kinds of styles of hats out there as well. I feel like you just have to try a few on and see what works!! What do you think of my stage look?! Hope you all are having a fantastic Monday!! Much love,
Ruthie xo

 

     
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Flowy Top: Kay Celine

Clutch: Tanner Goods

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  1. Jennifer Frick says

    February 15, 2016 at 8:57 am

    You look absolute FLAWLESS! And I love that you wear a hat on stage – kind of like an alterego! 🙂 So fierce and SO wonderful! xoxo

    Jen | MrsJenFrick.com

  2. Hales says

    February 15, 2016 at 9:27 am

    Gorgeous!!! We are spoiled with the weather here in Las Vegas too. The high yesterday was 81 degrees! ? Xo

    Hales | http://www.sincerelyhales.com

  3. Kristin says

    February 15, 2016 at 2:14 pm

    You look so chic!!! xox

  4. Meaghan says

    February 15, 2016 at 2:15 pm

    You always look fabulous and fierce on stage!! I am IN LOVE with the weather right now too. Got to get in all the black we can before the 100+ hits us. Have a fab week xx

  5. Janna Doan says

    February 15, 2016 at 3:22 pm

    ruthie–DANG… you are a hot mama. seriously. i love this outfit, simple but so hot in those ripped jeans. and that hat, i needa start trying to wear them but i don’t think i’d look that good! and the way you described the color black, that is so me and my relationship with it! LOL. i’m telling you we can soooo get along. xoxo,

    janna | http://www.jannadoan.com

  6. Anna says

    February 15, 2016 at 3:27 pm

    Love it!! And definitely love the rips on the jeans,they are perfect! ~Anna http://www.pepperandlife.com

  7. Krista Williams says

    February 15, 2016 at 4:28 pm

    Ruthie!

    I have to be honest, we are so ridiculously spoiled with this weather here in California. We have now been here for 3 years, and I am still floored when I walk outside in Februrary and it is 70 degrees!!!

    ^^^ that is my LIFE. I grew up in Chicago and everytime I walk outside I am like whaaaaa?? My family is also from CT, by the way 🙂 so we east coasters know what’s up! Where are you in CA? Would love to meet up or join a photo shoot 🙂

    Love black on black – my everything!
    xo
    Krista
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  8. Kait Elizabeth says

    February 15, 2016 at 4:43 pm

    Such a perfect look! With all the sunny and warm pictures you are making me hope my hubby gets stationed on the West Coast next year!!!! Btw all black is best, with a splash of maroon. 😉 Hugs, Kait
    http://makeminemaroon.com/

  9. Jenna at Boston Chic Party says

    February 15, 2016 at 5:01 pm

    Killing it, Ruthie! I love monochromatic looks like this so much 🙂
    xoxo, Jenna
    Boston Chic Party

  10. tiarasandsequins says

    February 15, 2016 at 6:39 pm

    Ruthie this a perfect❤ stage outfit and you rock hats!!!

  11. Samantha says

    February 16, 2016 at 5:05 am

    Beautiful as always Ruthie xoxo Samantha

  12. stopdropandvogue says

    February 16, 2016 at 7:33 am

    You’ve got that cool, Cali girl style and I’m totally loving those jeans. Work it!
    http://stopdropandvogue.com/

  13. naturallyfarout says

    February 16, 2016 at 6:48 pm

    This look is amazing!!! I love that hat so much with the chic black look.

    http://www.naturallyfarout.com

  14. Leonor B says

    February 17, 2016 at 5:44 am

    I’m Jealous of your winter!!!!! this color combo awesome!!!!!

  15. Karin Rambo says

    February 17, 2016 at 7:54 am

    GREAT outfit! I love the tan and black combo… one of my favorites!

    Karin | truncationblog.com

  16. Style Domination says

    February 17, 2016 at 8:20 am

    You look amazing! Wearing too of my fave colours! Love that hat too.

  17. Debonita says

    February 17, 2016 at 9:42 am

    Love the black and camel look. You look fab

    Debs x

    Elegantly Fashionable

  18. Tivoli says

    February 17, 2016 at 11:26 am

    Lucky lucky you West-Coasters! Lol. Philly winters are brutal and I am so ready for spring! But you look so fab in this girl! I understand why black is your go-to color cuz you totally rock it!! <3

  19. Emily says

    February 17, 2016 at 2:26 pm

    You look gorgeous and I need that top ASAP! I have been looking for something like this to wear inside a blazer! Of course you wouldn’t need a blazer because of the wonderful weather there, but here I’ll need blazer and scarf to feel comfortable haha! Hope you’re having a wonderful day Ruthie 🙂

    xoxo Emily
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  20. Casey Alexandra says

    February 19, 2016 at 1:08 pm

    Ruthie your outfit is giving me serious style envy! I love the way you paired black on black with the suede fedora. I grew up in CT too and work in New Haven now. Where did you grow up? If you’re back in the area, we should have a blogger coffee date because you are fab
    xoxo,
    Casey

    http://www.frombeginningtotrend.com

  21. According To D says

    February 19, 2016 at 2:52 pm

    Such a cute outfit ! I love black too ☺️ I like to do black with a pop of color in my accessories. Great style !
    Danielle Greco | AccordingtoD.com

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Me out here on a Monday trying to shine bright lik Me out here on a Monday trying to shine bright like a diamond 💎 because I literally lost mine this weekend 😳!!! (Swipe left to see💔) No lie, my diamond fell out of the prongs at Savannah’s 🏐 tournament, and I couldn’t find it! Get your diamonds, checked ladies!! I am really sad about it, but it could definitely be worse! I’ve had that beautiful ring for 18 years and I never got it checked! We will get it fixed eventually! @bmridley the ring 💍 is broke but it’s you and me forever baby ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

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✨APRIL✨ was a “Beautiful Mess”😌 Showing ✨APRIL✨ was a “Beautiful Mess”😌 Showing you all the of the beautiful… I don’t have any pictures of the mess 😝!!! “But in all things we give THANKS!” 1 Thess. 5:18 ❤️‍🔥 (Comment “SHOP” for links to any of my looks)
1. Just because 🧡💁🏾‍♀️
2. Happy 72nd birthday to my dad 🎉
3. Date night with my boo 🤍
4. J is getting very tall 😭
5. Card games and chats with @mealigrace 🩷
6. @ava_ridley09 ⚽️❤️‍🔥💥
7. Family sideline fun 😌
8. Sav’s amazing 🏐 team in a tournament ✨
9. Happy birthday @nataliekresge 🥳
10. Big tournament win for J and his team 🏆
11. Extra grateful for @overcome_fitnesscp in this season 🫶🏾
12. Happy birthday @sethdavid 🥳!! Happy 20th anniversary @deborahgiles @daniel_giles ❤️‍🔥
13. 🦆 on my favorite walk around the lake🤎
14. @ava_ridley09 award ceremony for life fitness. Currently squatting 205 🏋️‍♀️💪🏾
15. Brunch + prayer with these 💎 
16. @hiforrest concert for J with his best bud for his 13th!! @delani_eden you’re the best 😍
17.  @carlygulinomay & I Adventuring with our kids over Spring break🩷
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🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts & Spotify or tap the link in our bio! #TheGoodStuffPodcast #Discipline #GrowthMindset #PodcastEpisode
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I’ll go first!! Earlier this week I was just thinking about how faithful God has been to me over the years! I think we all go through different highs and lows, but it’s so good to stop and look back and remember what God has done! 

Back in 2008 when Ben and I just got married, the market had crashed. I had purchased a home on my own in CT- We lost the house and our cars were repossessed - I honestly felt like we would never recover from that!!! Not to mention, I felt so much failure and shame attached to that season!

Fast-forward to 2019, we begin working with our dear friend  @cody.d.williams  on purchasing our very first home together and he told us all the work that needed to be done with our credit,etc. we took a year and did everything we could to get things right! Not only were we able to purchase our first home together in 2019, but everything from the past was no longer a factor & two years later we were able to purchase an even more magnificent property that we now call home 🏡 

Why was this a miracle for me? I think because I thought we would always be behind & nothing would ever change. We rented for 7+ years before we were able to purchase a home as a married couple and that started to discourage me! 

Just a reminder that little miracles happen everyday and that your worst is never the worst.  God can turn your situation around in a moment!!! The BEST is yet to COME!!! Keep believing ⭐️
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